Morning ... morning ... Just us. Not so sure what to say this morning. Feeling a little down over the last couple of days. Should have figured it, because we were up so high. Hard to sustain those kind of feelings. Maybe too, because our friend stopped over last night ... one of those in then out kinda nights where he didn’t even have time to eat over or really talk past surface level. I thought we’d be able to let it go, but the situation is caught up in one of those female things where he’s not remembering its our anniversary coming up next week. It’ll be a friendship that has lasted 11 years, but one that’s being taken for granted. His solution was to say that he doesn’t pay attention to those kinds of things which translates to at least this female as he doesn’t have to pay attention to us either. Kind of makes me feel a little gloomy. *Sigh* Maybe best to say he’s in the doghouse and be moving on.
Maybe I’m going to rest longer ... not shaking this off so well.
Oh oh ... now we’ve overslept ... somebody better get going *gulp*
3 comments:
awww hon .. i know the feelings you're describing exactly .. i actually used to hope and hope that "he'd" remember important dates but he never did and then i'd feel so unimportant to him .. i finally realized that i couldn't keep bashing my head into the wall and just accepted that i had to change the dynamics .. i started flat out telling him (instead of just hoping he'd remember) i'd say something like "since our anniversary is coming up next week, i'd really like to do something special to celebrate" .. i took the importance out of him remembering and placed it back on the celebration .. it saved me a lot of heartbreak
change the things you can and accept the things you cannot change
sending you warm hugs
pamela
etal, you`re allowed to feel great for more than a couple of days.
{{{ Hugs }}}
V
etal, listen to Pam!!
V
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